Why Does My Dog Stare at Me While Pooping?

Ever had an intense stare from your dog, just as they're in the process of popping? No, you're not imagining things - and definitely not alone. Many guardians may question "Why is my dog looking at me like that right now?" and as awkward as it might feel, this behaviour is actually rooted in instinct, communication, and trust. Let's explore what's really going on when your dog stares at you while they're passing stool.

When dogs pause, squatting to relieve themselves, they enter a vulnerable state. In the wild, animals are most at risk when they can't move quickly or defend themselves - just like when eating, sleeping, or, yes, pooping. During this time, a dog can't watch its surroundings or respond immediately to threats. That's where you come in. You're their support system.

Your dog looks at you to assess whether the coast is clear. They're depending on your body language to detect any potential danger. If you're calm and relaxed, that signals safety. If you suddenly stiffen or react to something around you, they're likely to pick up on that - and might even stop mid-squat to investigate.

That intense gaze isn't just about survival. It can also be a form of connection. Studies have shown that mutual eye contact between dogs and humans increases levels of oxytocin - the "love" or "hug hormone" responsible for bonding. It's a bit odd to think that your dog might be pooping and telling you they love you at the same time!

Dogs are experts at reading human body language. When they stare at you while pooping, they may be scanning your face or posture for any sudden changes that indicate something's off. This can be especially true for anxious or highly alert dogs, who are extra sensitive to their environment.

It's also possible that your dog is looking for a cue - perhaps they associate pooping with getting a treat afterward, and they're checking to see if you're reaching for your pocket.

Of course, all dogs are individual - and while some may seek eye contact while toileting, others prefer privacy. If your dog avoids your gaze or seems shy while pooping, they might just be more modest or it could be linked to something in their past.

Dogs who were punished during housetraining - when any accidents occurred - may associate a human being near them while they're toileting as concerning. They're predicting that punishment may be coming - and even as adults, these dogs may prefer to poop out of sight. If this is the case for your dog, it can help to give them some space but also offer praise or treats once they're finished to reinforce positive associations.

While it might feel odd, making brief eye contact with your dog while they're toileting may be reassuring for them. However, if your dog seems uncomfortable or shifts their gaze quickly, respect their preference and avoid staring. The goal is to be a comforting presence, not an intimidating one.

So remember, when your dog looks at you while pooping, it's not a social faux pas - it's a survival tactic, a bonding moment, and a trust exercise all wrapped in one. So next time you find yourself in this shared moment of strange intimacy, take it as a compliment. It shows they see you as their protector and support system.